RIP - Kingsgrove Filipino Shop

That karma is an absolute bitch.

As they say - treat unto others how you wish to be treated unto yourself.

Good rules to stick by me thinks.

There ya go Eastlakes gossiping grubs.

OH CRAP - I'M BACK

And who would have thought it.

I wiped my hands of helping in the Filipino community, concentrated on those mates who mean everything and returning to the world (hobby) I once knew before stupidly becoming part of a hate filled community hell bent on destruction.

So why am I here?
Truth is that I wish I wasn't.

But last Thursday, while minding her own business, my wife was verbally attacked, lied to and embarrassed in the Filipino store at Mascot by everyones favourite Racquel.
In the time following her previous Facebook attack, she has been very busy with many more mistruths about us and about friends.
Nobody is immune to the slanderous crap that spurts from the mouth of some.

As was previously offered, we again asked her to get together all the people she says we made prostitutes, all the people whos marriages have apparently been destroyed, all the people involved in her alleged people trafficking.
But as always, she is all scream and no action on this front.
When confronted with genuine answers, it is a quick "I'm not interested".

What is wrong?
Why don't they get these people together?
Is there something to hide, like, well, PERHAPS THE TRUTH!

Show you have some credibility, the credibility to say you have, and actually organise the meeting you constantly threaten you will - but then seem to conveniently forget again.

WHAT DO THEY HAVE TO HIDE?

BUT WHAT IS FUNNIER STILL?

During here tirade at my innocent and uninvolved wife, it was hinted that she was a failure due to only having one husband and not three.
That being loyal to one job for 16 years was a sign of failure.

THEN THE ALL TIME FAVOURITE

Oh yes, the old 'Brad hates Filipinos' claim.
Brad who sponsors events to raise money, Brad who spent three weeks getting two bus loads of clothes for typhoon victims, Brad who works with Filipinos all day, Brad who has many close friends and family in the Philippines.

If TRUTH BE KNOWN, No I don't hate Filipinos, I just hate LIARS.

Howdee fans,
                      Firstly allow me to isssue an apology for my tardiness.
  I know many of my friends (yes, not all have left me as claimed) have been disappointed in the delay to get out the final chapter in this sage of Racquel's continued claims against me.
  However, by way of compensation, I have some other stuff, to be forthcoming, from a friend of hers on Facebook that has decided to share things relevant from her wall.
 A FRIEND I HEAR YOU SAY? BUT HOW, WITH ALL HER FRIENDS BELIEVING IN HER!!!!
  I know. I to was dumbfounded also, gobsmacked even.

 

Note: Above is publically accessible Facebook title.

  However thats for the next report - for now we must catch up with what has been going on before the unprovable slander that has been aimed my way.

  Earlier mentioned offeres to catch up with the slanderer, her husband, the young girl in question and her mother was greated with a negative response. The slanderer (officially classed as such by solicitor) telling her husband she wishes to meet alone.
  REALLY - what do you have TO HIDE???
  If all is truthful and just, why would you not wish others to be there?
  Why?  A question that will never be answered.

  Then, after said request, why would you ring up on husbands behalf to inform he has quite his job. Can't he do so himself?
  Nice touch in trying to get my wife (who you said was ok) to loose her job.
  Problem is, legally, this does not concern her. Only spite leads to this sort of action.

  Not surprisingly, her husband is again looking for work, while her step daughter (who in my next post she claims to care about) looks also to have been forced to do the same.
  Almost as if there is a fear of the truth coming out isn't there? ISN'T THERE.

  Yet we were blamed for her first husband leaving - laughable.

  Have you contacted the St George Psyciatric Hospital for a report yet guys?

STAY TUNED - The next in our slander series will have some more information FROM WITHIN.
A posting from someone who does not see me as the bastard she thinks I am.

 

Stay safe.

Want more? Thanks to anonomous for your thoughts on the event.
Read them below or HERE.

 

SLANDER UPDATE - 14.23   MAY 6TH 2013

  It has been two days since our first report on the latest attack from one of Eastlakes finest, some 3-4 years after we last had the blessing of hearing from her.
Oh and what an amazing two days it has been, visits and comments from numerous friends have again reinforced how lucky I am, and how idiotic the recent claims truly are.
  The only true negative part in all this is the upset it has caused outsiders, most especially my parents who are urging me to take this far further than even I feel it needs to go. Really, we should try to be tolerant of people whom live a life so terribly miserable that only causing pain for others can bring them the slightest bit of happiness.

EFFORTS?

  Yesterday, as has often been done in the past, we offered the chance for Racquel (as well as husband, Ate Inday and the young girl in question) to meet with us face to face to discuss her claims. The meeting would also include a few friends who, while not directly named, would be mostly considered to be directly part of these claims.
  The husband seems to feel she will say no (obviously having something to hide), but the effort must be made to sort some of this out. Even though, realistically, we will likely just have to endure another scream fest in an effort to cover up any real truth coming forth.

 

The biggest questions that needs to be brought forth is:
  Why has nobody consulted the 'St George Psychiatric Hospital' for the real story instead of slandering my name and the reputation of friends across the internet?
  Has anything been said about a pregnancy and forced abortion, along with references to these in official hospital records?
  Has anyone stopped to place brain in gear and wonder why it was requested that my wife and I were the only people she trusted to pick the young girl in question up from the hospital and allow her time to get her life back on track?
  Is it a fear that the truth is not as damaging as invention?
  Sadly they are right, it is far less damaging, but not only for us, but for her as well.

Stay tuned in coming days for the latest updates.

  In the meantime, check out the history of all this at the original Manila Downunder. The link is on the right side of this page.
  And beware of who you choose to call friends....... It can haunt you forever.

Think I am in the running for the 2013 award as well :-) WoooooHooooooo

~~ BFF Myth in the Australian Pinay community ~~

BEST FRIENDS FOREVER.

The Philippines, it is a country of wonderful and interesting myths, superstitions and ghost stories.

Of course, for many, it is the reason we fall in love with it and call it our second

country. For many it becomes a first home, especially later in life when female attention becomes a lot

thinner in numbers - well, non-existent really.

I have been pondering this, often over used, term in recent times.

After 14 years of enforced research, I am beginning to conclude that the BFF is as mythical in the Pinay community of Sydney as the aswang, talking trees and and honest Aquinos.

I've yet to find a BFF in this country that has lasted 10 years in the

Aussie Pinay community.

However, doing much better in the area of enduring reliability is the BHF (Best Hate Forever). Oh yes, two decades later and you can find wonderful blossoming hatred between many a former couple who once utilized the BFF term. Go to any karaoke party (try avoiding the endless weeks of made up gossip about you though) and talk to people.

Get to know them and then bring up the community ------ oh yes, you wi

ll find a delightful bubbling hot cauldron of simmering hate just below that cute friendly surface.

This research has lead to my second sad realization about the Pinay community here in Australia.

Till next I share my words of wisdom, take care and be kind to each other (if you can).

Howdee,
I know how much this society craves gossip.

A few days ago three cop cars reportedly attended the Botany Filipino shop, one of them being a paddy wagon.
Has to have been more than a simple shop lifting - Perhaps someone has been arrested for rampant backstabbing????????

Any further info greatly appreciated.

Brad
** Thanks to Wayno for the info..............................

~~ WAS I BEING USED? ~~

AND

~~ MY NIECE AIREEN - FOUND ~~

Sorry it has been a while since I last posted. After the last attack by the Eastlakes Ferrals I sort of couldn't have been bothered with the local community for a while.

It did give me time to reflect and consider all the accusations that one garden knome has made about my apparent lying and where this may have come from. I mean these are people I have tried to do nothing but help, yet when things don't go their way, they instantly have to turn around a abuse you, accuse you of things that just aren't true, and otherwise do whatever it takes to boost their ego in the community.

It was after a few extended talks with the kinder in the Filipino community here that I have realised that there may actually be some basis to what they are saying.
What is my actions, my thoughts and my words had all been based on those of someone I thought was a close friend who could be trusted?
What if this trusted friend fed me with misinformation, knowing that I would act on it, knowing that I would cause the trouble they themselves were trying to cause.

WHAT IF I WAS JUST BEING USED???

WHEN YOU COME DOWN TO IT, WHEN YOU REALLY TRACE BACK ALL THE LIES AND RUMOURS, IT ALL SEEMED TO COME TO THE SAME PERSON!

To be honest with myself, I never actually witnessed most of the stuff that I was fed.

1- Wifes cheating on husbands.
2- Boyfriends cheating on girlfriends.
3- People whinging about quality of food.
4- People using hospitality then calling them low class.

So what if, just what if, both myself and my website was actually used as someone elses tool in their campain of hate, knowing that I hate liars and knowing that I would go on my own personal crusade against them if I was to thing this was what they were doing.

I find myself with a reasonable sized list of people who I used to think were the most evil of all, Mascot Drive excepted as they have already proven this, and an equal sized list of how these thoughts stemmed from the comments of just one or two in the Filipino community of Botany Bay (at the time).

As the realisation continues to flow into my mind, I find myself more and more relieved at the truth which gradually sets me free. But alas, while it is way to late to change some of these things around, I am now a far more wiser person when it comes to dealing with this sort of person.
Never again will I put the thoughts/rumours/gossip of one person above all others. Never again will I implicitly trust anyone in the community who masquerades as a friend.

HERES TO REALITY - HERES TO CLARITY

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In happier news, I heard from my long lost niece Aireen the other day.
She now be living and working in Beirut (Lebanon) and finally heading towards the life she has always wanted.
I am so happy she is doing well, but miss our 2am chats about Filipino belief and superstition, not to mention the terrific karaoke session.
Take care Aireen, we will meet again one day.

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